The person on the other side loses their one dedicated moment of development that week. It compounds.
Every day
Feedback doesn't land the way it was meant to.
The manager thought they were direct. The report heard something else entirely.
Every day
Someone disengages quietly.
Nobody notices until they hand in their notice. By then, the cost is already paid.
70%of training never changes behaviour on the job
6 wksuntil engagement data arrives — after the damage is done
The gap between what good leadership looks like and what actually happens in the room is enormous.
The layer that matters most
Your managers are the layer between your strategy and your people.
They need to do this consistently — in every 1:1, every week:
Run 1:1s that actually develop people
Give feedback that is direct but doesn't damage the relationship
Handle difficult conversations before they become expensive ones
Build ownership instead of creating dependency
Spot disengagement before it becomes a resignation letter
Turn company values into everyday management behaviour
The problem isn't that your managers don't care.
It's that nobody is there to coach them in the moments that matter.
Meet Phoebe
Your managers' contextual leadership coach — in every 1:1, every week.
Phoebe analyses every manager 1:1 against proven leadership principles and delivers specific, evidenced coaching within the hour. So your People team can reach every manager, in every moment — not just the ones who make it onto your calendar.
Joe left this meeting less energised than he arrived.
Joe raised two ideas in the first 10 minutes. Both were acknowledged but neither was built on. By the close, his responses were shorter and he'd stopped volunteering.
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You validated Joe's idea, then immediately moved to risks — before he'd finished building the case.
08:14 — "yes but have you thought about..."Idea climate
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No curiosity questions in the second half. You spoke for 4 of the last 6 minutes.
Talk ratio: 68% managerEngagement
✓
Strong opening — you asked about Joe's week before any agenda items.
Psychological safety
FrameworkYes, and... (not Yes, but...)
Borrowed from improv, this technique trains you to build on an idea before evaluating it — keeping the idea-giver expansive rather than defensive.
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Repeat back the most interesting part of the idea first.
2
Add one thing — a question, a connection, a possibility — before any concern.
3
Only then introduce risk, framed as "what would we need to solve for?"
Next 1:1 prepYour next 1:1 with Joe
Joe floated an idea about streamlining the onboarding flow that didn't get space to land. These questions are designed to resurface it and rebuild momentum.
Last time you mentioned the onboarding idea — have you thought more about it since?
What would a small version of that look like, just to test the concept?
What would make you feel like this 1:1 was worth your time today?
70%
of training fails to change behaviour on the job
8–12
managers a People Partner can meaningfully coach — they typically carry 20–40
6 wks
is how long engagement survey results take to arrive — after the damage is done
The product
The coaching layer your managers actually use.
Phoebe sits above your meeting tools. It analyses behaviour, not just content — and coaches in the moments that still matter.
01
Meeting happens
Phoebe joins or receives the transcript from any 1:1 — via whatever meeting tool you already use.
02
Phoebe analyses
It maps behaviour against proven leadership principles, with timestamps and evidence from the actual conversation.
03
Coaching arrives
Within the hour, your manager gets specific, evidenced coaching in their inbox — plus a prep guide for the next 1:1.
Enable your managers to lead in the moments that count.
Phoebe is in early access. We're working with a small number of design partners.